It’s a rare person who disagrees that self esteem is the bottom line when it comes to achievement.
We pretty much know that our relationships will be conducted at a level equal to our self esteem, that money wont flow towards an attitude of lack and that the single greatest influence on health is our beliefs about it.
But what does your average person do with that knowledge?
We still go out there using achievement itself as our primary tool for elevating our self image.
AND its difficult not to.
Few of us feel bad about succeeding and great about failure. Give me a choice and I’ll take success over failure every day.
BUT we still have to make an effort to divorce ourselves from our results.
Those who love us won’t double the dose because we land a big one, nor will they withdraw when we fall on our face. It’s us who’ll do that.
Therefore the single most powerful tool in elevating your sense of ease and confidence is to SUSPEND JUDGEMENT.